Grieving is different for every person. The anguish, the fog, and the loneliness create a deep desire for answers and a return to normalcy. These themes are common but the process of grieving, " the journey" is influenced by many variables. How a person died, when they died, type of relationship, support, culture, spriritual beliefs and even society are just a few of the concepts that impact the healing process. From a simplistic perspective grief is intimate. Grief is personal, and the journey is uniquely your own.